It always seems a little odd to me that sex and religion are seldom talked about in the same breath. When most religious groups speak out on a sexual topic, it’s usually a negative, something people “shouldn’t” do. But sex is such an integral part of our humanity—and can be such a profound, even spiritual […]
Is Your Inner Voice Ruining Your Sex Life?
Sex is supposed to feel good. Unfortunately, sometimes the internal voices we all have in our heads can get in the way. Even with a loved and loving partner, we can be running an internal soundtrack that keeps us from enjoying the experience. When it comes to sex, there are two main kinds of unhelpful […]
“My Daughter Can’t Date ’til She’s 40”
Have you ever heard anyone say that? Or maybe said it yourself? When I’ve heard the expression, it’s always been from the father of a young girl. He sometimes adds, “I know how teenage boys are—I used to be one.” It’s a joke, but only sort of. The father’s motivation, of course, is protective. He […]
Guys: Here’s How to Impress the Girl You Like
I talk to a lot of young people about dating and sex these days. So I know that “dating” isn’t really the right word, because nobody goes on dates. People “hang out” or “hook up” or meet each other somewhere, but there’s little of that archaic “let’s go out for dinner and a movie” stuff. […]
When Aunt Suzy Wants a Hug–But Your Child Doesn’t
Some families are very huggy and affectionate; others less so. But even less cuddly families tend to hug and kiss relatives when they arrive for a visit. Some kids are happy to give Grandpa or Aunt Suzy a hug—but others howl. What’s a parent to do? At one end of the continuum is letting the […]
TalkStarter for Adults: What Has Sex Meant to You at Different Times?
Sex is such a rich and complex part of the human experience. It means a lot to most people—and it can mean different things at different times in our lives. What has been your experience of sex? How has your view of sex changed at various stages of your life? Did its meaning change when […]
Feeling “Meh” About Sex Tonight? Your Relationship Status Matters
If the person next to you wants to have sex tonight and you’re not sure whether you’re in the mood, should you do it? It depends on who the person next to you is. Suppose the person who’s looking for action is someone you don’t know well or who just wants casual sex. If you […]
Mind Confused? Ask Your Body
Lots of times when we’re faced with a complicated decision, our heads can start to spin. Usually talking through the issues with a trusted friend and making a list of pros and cons can help. But sometimes, the decision just doesn’t settle. Maybe the possibilities are roughly equal and, in the scheme of things, not […]
What to Teach Your Daughter about her “Girl Parts”
Little kids notice early that boys and girls are different under their underwear. Boys’ genitals are more obvious than girls’ and seem to get talked about more openly. Female genitalia are more hidden—with the odd result that girls, even today, often don’t know their own bodies. Starting when kids are young (toddlers, even), parents can […]
Why That Hottie Might Not Be the Best Date
What kind of person would you like to date? You probably have a list of things you’re looking for—and one quality you want is “attractive.” Because, well, we’re attracted to attractive people; there’s something about their physical appeal that pulls us in. It’s natural to be drawn toward beauty/handsomeness/sexiness. Who wouldn’t want that in a […]
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