What kind of person would you like to date? You probably have a list of things you’re looking for—and one quality you want is “attractive.” Because, well, we’re attracted to attractive people; there’s something about their physical appeal that pulls us in. It’s natural to be drawn toward beauty/handsomeness/sexiness. Who wouldn’t want that in a […]
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TalkStarter: Valentine’s Day Topics for Couples
Some couples are good to go when it comes to Valentine’s Day. You know a way to celebrate that’s fun for both of you, you’re happy with your relationship and your sex life, and it’s comfortable to talk about things. But other couples…might need a little boost. If you’d like a little help getting the […]
Home Alone Too Often? 10 Ways to Meet New People
We humans evolved to need connection with other people. Like other mammals, we need the pack or the herd for safety and companionship. But modern life makes social connection (the in-person kind) harder than it was when we lived in villages with extended family all around. Many people are lonely, would like more friends, or […]
Is Your Household Division of Labor Fair?
Every couple has to figure out who does what to keep things running—and for a lot of people, it’s a sore spot. Is it an issue for you and your partner? In an earlier era, household division of labor was clearly defined: The man earned the money and took care of the yard, while the […]
How a Woman Is Like an Iron
What do women have in common with irons? They take a while to warm up. Men, in contrast, tend to be more like a light switch—quickly turned all the way on. Maybe you already know that. But I keep running into young people who don’t. I talk to young women who think there’s something wrong […]
A Quick Thought on Lighting a Fire with Your Honey
This past month, you may have been so busy that you’ve hardly had a chance to connect with your sweetie—in bed or otherwise. Now, the pace has finally eased up. You may even have some time off. So take advantage of the time to relax, reconnect, and get playful. Here’s a quote I like, from […]
One Simple Trick for Reducing Holiday Shopping Stress
This time of year, people use words like stress, hectic, and frenzy more than usual. All the holiday prep and shopping on top of life’s usual demands can feel like just too much. What’s supposed to be a joyous season can become miserable. Some years back, I had an epiphany about holiday shopping that’s proven […]
TalkStarter: Is “Baby, It’s Cold Outside” About Date Rape?
Everyone knows the song Baby, It’s Cold Outside, performed by numerous artists over the years. I’ve always liked it—it’s fun, creative, and playful (and in a range I can sing along to 🙂 ). So I was a bit taken aback a couple years ago when a young woman I know referred to it as […]
Are You Thankful for Your In-Laws?
Your partner’s family can have a big impact on your relationship, especially at holiday time. If you’re blessed with wonderful in-laws and you know it, you are truly lucky. It can’t hurt to tell them again how thankful you are that they’re part of your life. The more common scenario, alas, is in-laws that drive […]
What Masters and Johnson Got Wrong About Sex
Our understanding of sex owes a lot to William Masters and Virginia Johnson. Their pioneering work in the 1950s and ‘60s (along with the research of Alfred Kinsey) opened a whole new world of studying and talking about human sexual experience. They got a lot right. But work that’s been done since has filled in […]
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