This past month, you may have been so busy that you’ve hardly had a chance to connect with your sweetie—in bed or otherwise. Now, the pace has finally eased up. You may even have some time off. So take advantage of the time to relax, reconnect, and get playful.

Here’s a quote I like, from psychologist and writer Adam Phillips:

“In our erotic life work does not work…trying is always trying too hard. Eroticism is an imaginative act, and you can’t measure it. We glorify productivity and fail to recognize that the erotic space is a radiant interlude in which we luxuriate, indifferent to demands of productivity; pleasure is the only goal.”